Sexual Role Playing – What the dictionary says!!

Definition wise, sexual or erotic role playing is a technique that requires you to enact a fantasy character along with your partner, behave as that character would in bed and culminate the love making being in the character only. This erotic role playing technique is used to stir up the close-to-death physical relationships. It infuses a new spark in the relationship as it allows you to live your fantasies and also gives a good break from the monotony. It does not get boring as there are number of characters that you can play are numerous. The challenge and excitement of getting into the shoes of a new character is a mind occupying activity and sustains the interest on two different levels – mental & sexual.

But before you get going, read our guide to sexual role playing

Rule No 1 – Decipher Purpose

Before you think of erotic role playing to spice it up under the sheet, you should be very clear about why are you trying it and what kind of results are you looking forward too. This is a very good way to kill the repetitive nature in your lovemaking style, but at the same time, it might just backfire and not give you the kind of results that you are looking for. The technique might fail for a number of reasons. So just be careful about what you expect from this new interesting style and then march ahead to the next step.

Intensify Sexual Pleasure-Choose a Theme

Once the above two things are settled, the next step is to list down at least 3 of your sexual role playing fantasies. Both of the partner’s should write their own ideas, and then discuss them to decide on the one that goes well with both. In case you haven’t really thought of anything ever you can also have a look at the popular thematic characters that have been tried and tested by many couples for successful results. Some the common day sex role playing themes are:

Doctor & Nurse
Strangers
Boss & Secretary
Sexy cop & her Catch
Vampire & his prey

There are many more sex role playing themes that you can choose from, apart from those listed above.

Rule No 4 – Tips on Erotic Dressup

After the theme is decided it is very important to pick up the right kind of clothes. Your erotic dressup should suit the theme and make it seem real. Do not pick up funny clothes as it may spoil the mood completely. You can rent the clothes and add accessories of your own, so that it doesn’t cost much to your pocket and looks real too.