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Men usually enjoy sex. And that is exactly how it is supposed to be. Still many of us, struggle with various anxieties before going for it. Carrying your anxieties and worries to bed can actually affect your performance. Some of the common distracting thoughts are: What if I lose erection? Will I be able to satisfy her? Am I too fat? Will I be able to have an orgasm? At the same time being overconfident about your abilities on the bed can piss off your partner. Find a perfect balance and keep a note of things that you shouldn’t be doing while having sex.
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- Do not Look around
Do not look around, while in bed. Reasons for your distraction can be many, but make sure to check things before you slip into bed. Bolt the doors well, check the curtains, remove all close-to-bed breakable objects, check for moths, lizards (I’m sure you don’t want her screaming in the middle) etc. And in case TV is on, don’t even think of changing channels in between, infact switch it off before you get into bed. Lovemaking is passionate moment that requires your attention. Don’t keeps things clumsy or messy. And if one such precarious things come to your notice. Better IGNORE!
- Do not Lie Still
Most people complain of an inactive, unresponsive lover. When in bed, make your moves and let them know that you are into it. . Don’t just restrict yourself to sign language, be expressive and responsive. A little groan or a forbidden shriek would be enough to make it a day for your partner.
- Do not Be Anxious
People experience anxiety due to a number of reasons. Be it the fear of unwanted pregnancy, contraceptive measures or the nagging fear of failing to sexually satisfy your partner. While men are known to suffer from performance anxiety, a lot of women unnecessarily stress about their looks and body image. Just do away with the anxiety and apprehensions and enjoy sex with a carefree mind. Have fun.
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- Don’t Think Work
A gratifying sexual session is aimed at relaxing your mind and ridding it from tensions and worries. Bid adieu to professional anxieties while gearing up for an intimate session. Keep your mind focused on sex and have a stress free lovemaking session.
- Don’t Fart
Okeah…I don’t think this needs an explanation. Just DON’T DO IT.
- Don’t Wait For a ‘Type of Orgasm’ Or even worse FAKE
We have heard about different types of climaxes in a woman; breast, clitoral, G-spot,etc. Forget all. Don’t make love making ‘Orgasm oriented’. Pamper your bodies, be passionate and rest shall follow.
- Don’t talk ex-sex
Simply put, DO NOT COMPARE. Keep your past out of your bedroom and focus on the present. If you cant, don’t get in the sheets.
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Be Careless or Too serious
Be considerate to your lover, and try not to hurt them with any of your words or actions while making love. At the same time, if you accidentally do any of the above, remember that nearly every situation in bed can be laughed off. Instead of spoiling the mood, laugh together.
- Don’t Ask If he’s Come Yet
Never ask a man if he’s come yet. The questions puts off your man for two reasons:
1.It seems that you are just waiting for it to get over, which is a major hit to his bloated ego.
2. For a man the sexual act is based around orgasm, and the idea that you don’t even know his intense moment of pleasure can take from the moment.
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12 November 2009 at 9:20 pm